Birds are stupid? that'd be better.

Speaking of DUCKS, fighting or argument between themselves, it doesn't last long and they say good bye and leave for each direction right after that. On the way, they claps intensely their wings. That's their way to emit the energy which they have built in themselves during fighting. Surprisingly, - no idea they had little capacity to remember something or emitted all that energy - they look peaceful after clapping wings.

If they are not ducks but human beings like us (like me), they will say -

"I really don't understand, she didn't consider me at all by thinking this pond is owned by herself only.I would never trust her now that it's for sure she will pick me on another time. Let's see."

Keep making the story and it is hanging around the brain over and over.

With that thought, it will generate some energy which is called as EMOTION. And it seems the emotion helps to generate many thoughts again even though there's nothing occurring. All are just MADE and GUESSED. It's all about PAST and FUTURE, there's no PRESENT.

Do we have difficulties to let PAST go? Or Don't we want to let PAST go?

Past itself in our memory seems no problem - like when we look at funny picture even with our ex-boyfriend or friend who just argued with me, we can laugh and feel good because of that memory. Also past in memory is good when it comes to improvement on the wrong and mistake. The problem is that the memory is changed to the concern or worry that will make us in prison of mind. We should not live in the mind by making ridiculous movies, See where I am in now. Nothing can help NOW which happened in past.

Just stay now, stay now.

# we usually play a joke to somebody stupid by saying you are like a bird, how can you forget it easily? well.. if it's nothing to do with vocabulary, grammar, $#%$&^!&, that would be better. #

it's not my fault, just I receive it.

The only thing that makes the difference in the way I feel right now is the thought that I am thinking right now. It doesn't matter how many lucks I have got, there are joyful people with no luck (like lottery or something). How I feel is about how I am allowing the source that is I to flow.

So when I talk about the Art of Allowing, I am talking about the Art of Living, about the Art of Thriving, about the Art of Clarity.

I am talking about the ART of being who I really am.

A "Don't Want" Feed the attention

I don't want to have a cold, I don't want to meet any bad luck, I don't want to work with him, I don't want to see birds.

When we make plans or when we say about 'want', we usually use 'NOT' for emphasizing. This works a lot For emphasizing. The more we use 'NOT', the more we pay attention on that 'NOT'. Look at the children, when we advise or scold with "Don't do this, Don't do that." They will not easily stop doing those things, because the activity emphasized itself has been reminded.

A "Don't Want" Feeds the Attention. The Universe always gives us what we want, even when we 'don't want' it. The Mind Doesn't Compute "Don't Want"
When I don't want something I have to become aware of it. I have to know what it is and be conscious of it so I can steer my attention away from it as fast as possible.

Unfortunately, most of us don't do this. For example, if I said, "don't think of the color blue," what happens? We thought of the color blue. Why did we think of the color blue even though I told not to? We thought of the color blue so that we could distinguish those colors that are not blue.

Distinguishing a 'don't want' can be a little tricky. It's very subtle. I need to pay attention to my thoughts. Most people aren't aware they place their attention on the very things they don't want.
How to Stop Attracting the "Don't Want"
A simple way to stop attracting "don't wants" is to recognize what we're currently attracting into our life. Are we attracting: - People we don't trust? - An unhealthy body? - More debt?

By recognizing the people, circumstances and conditions I am attracting, I am hot on the trail of a "don't want." Once I realize that I created it I can then refocus my attention on what I DO want. This is easier said than done, but I will not say that's difficult.


I want to be healthy, I want to have all good luck, I want to work this guy, I want to see bears.